That Which Matters

Ephemeral thoughts on eternal ideas

  • Response to ‘The Art of Parenting’

    Response to ‘The Art of Parenting’

    This is a response to the article titled The Art of Parenting by Raji Swaminathan, which appeared in Issue 15 of the Journal of the Krishnamurti Schools. As I read the article, I felt the impulse to relate it to my life’s particulars, and hence this rather disjointed response.   **** While on the face of […]


  • Daily Parenting: More Montessori…

    Daily Parenting: More Montessori…

    Montessori speaks of three external circumstances that may constitute the principles of her method of education: 1. Suitable environment 2. Humility in the teacher 3. Scientific material At first glance, it seems that it is possible to create these at home as well. The environment can be pleasant and ‘child-friendly’, in that things are accessible […]


  • Daily Parenting: May Contain Nuts

    Daily Parenting: May Contain Nuts

    Read a wonderful book a couple of months ago – May Contain Nuts. A must read for all parents I think – a novel set in England about extreme parenting. Though some of it was TOO EXTREME to be realistic, I paused often to recognise similar patterns of thought I had. It was also a […]


  • Daily Parenting: Magic of Shadows

    Daily Parenting: Magic of Shadows

    M discovered her shadow a couple of days ago. What joy! It grows long, it grows short, you cannot step on it and it won’t leave you alone. It is there, and now it is not. I loved chasing my shadow as a child – the game was to try and detach from it – […]


  • Daily Parenting: Montessori Comes Our Way

    Daily Parenting: Montessori Comes Our Way

    So here I am – a good year and a half later to renew the Daily Parenting blog! M has started school – actually today is the last day of her school term – she started school a couple of months ago. Montessori. Did not realise what Montessori was all about until M joined the […]


  • Daily Parenting:  The First Entry

    Daily Parenting: The First Entry

    So here I am, starting a blog. Having taught about them at ACJ for a while I have finally created one for myself. With an internet connection that is barely faster than modem speed, I never thought I would start a blog. But here I am. In the same week that I have joined Facebook […]


  • Fathers and Daily Parenting

    Fathers and Daily Parenting

    The article “Daddy Cool” (The Hindu, 1 June 2013) spoke of the significant role of fathers in the upbringing of children. It mentioned the emergence in recent years, especially in western countries, of stay at home dads who look to be equal partners in parenting.  As a father who has worked from home for eight […]


  • DNS: The end (10/10)

    DNS: The end (10/10)

    18 Jul 1999 Hi, It has been a long time since I have written. Much has happened here in the meantime. As I mentioned in one of my previous emails long ago, I was having difficulty with the approach of this institution. Over the past year I have tried to work around the difficulties but […]


  • DNS: Back in Denmark (9/10)

    DNS: Back in Denmark (9/10)

    19 May 1999 Hi all, Just to let you know we managed to get back to Denmark intact after23133 kms on the road! I have to catch up on four months of email soit is going to take some time but I will get around to replying to all of you soon. Meanwhile here is […]


  • DNS: A quick check-in (8/10)

    DNS: A quick check-in (8/10)

    8 May 1999 Hi all, Sorry for the long silence but I have tended to lapse into these pausesrecently. I spent 8 weeks in India shuttling between Delhi and Madrasmainly, with a few days in Rajasthan, B’bay and Mangalore. The stay in India was notquite what I planned it to be, but it was nice […]